Episode 34

Failing Forward How to Create the Life You Desire After Failure with Lillian Victoria

TRIGGER WARNING: In this episode, my guest and I dive into the following topic: Suicidal Ideation, Childhood Sexual Assault, and Domestic Violence. If you need to pause or stop listening to this episode, please honour that. Thank you.

What happens when your childhood fear comes true? Failure looks very different for alot of people. For Lillian, she was living the a life that looked good on paper; as she calls it a "resume life". She had everything that she was "supposed to have" but she extremely unhappy. Her sadness seeped its way into every aspect of her life and soon she found herself as a single mom who was homeless. The two things she never wanted to be. So, Lillian changed her thoughts and went after what she believed she deserved.

I invite you to join our conversation as Lillian and I discuss:

  • Fear-Driven
  • Victim Mindset
  • Depression
  • Low Self Image
  • Confidence
  • Therapy
  • Mantras
  • Harmony
  • Inspiration
  • Growth
  • Bob Proctor

Honourable Mentions

Share how YOU overcame a situation

You're Enough: Letting go the Pressure to be Perfect by Bianca Hughes, LPC

What Is Your Fear Archetype And How Does It Manifest In Your Life?

Fostering a Positive Self-Image

Science Behind Therapy

When It’s OK to Trust Your Gut on a Big Decision

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

You 2 by Price Pritchett

Where can you find Lillian Victoria?

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MissLillianVictoria/

Facebook Coaching Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/napoleonhillinstitutemastercoachingwithlillian

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lillianvictoriaofficial/

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This podcast is hosted by Bianca Kesha Hughes. Known for authenticity and heart-work services, Bianca is the ultimate trailblazer in the mental health and wellness field as a therapist, coach, speaker, and podcast host, inspiring her audience to let go of the illusion of perfectionism. Ready to learn more? Contact her here!

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Song Credit: Encore by King Sis

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About the Podcast

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About your host

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Bianca Hughes

Bianca Kesha Hughes is setting boundaries and breaking barriers. She knows how to navigate life and discover true identity while trusting in God. Known for authenticity and heart-work services, Bianca is the ultimate trailblazer in the mental health and wellness field as a therapist, coach, speaker, and podcast host, inspiring her audience to let go of the illusion of perfectionism.

She is deeply connected to her cultural values, and Caribbean heritage, and her foundation of faith is a source of light for everyone around her. A courageous and determined woman, she moved to America from London in her 20's to follow her dreams.

Bianca experiences her fair share of trials and pain but she heals through vulnerability and connecting to her authentic self. For this reason, she is passionate about breaking down the walls of perfectionism, encouraging her audience to connect to their authentic self while creating a safer place for them to be seen and heard.

Bianca created Authentically Be You Counseling & Wellness Studio, to help women dig deeper to uncover their greatest fears and tap into the inner turmoil rooted around perfectionism. Bianca continues to help women connect to their inner selves through self-awareness and vulnerability to essentially embrace their imperfections and authentically be themselves.

Her podcast, "It Didn't Break Me," creates a space for honest and vulnerable conversations. Her guests share their transformational life stories around the messy stuff they didn't think they'd come back from yet they are still here. "It Didn't Break Me" podcast is a platform for people who are struggling with mindset shifts around perfectionism and being their authentic self, inspiring them to discover the beauty in the mess.